There's nothing wrong with that....

Sancho, there is nothing wrong with your feelings...

I have a 9 year old niece - I too wouldn't like the idea of an adult man having sex with her (shock! Gasp! from the peds here - lol!)

But, I wouldn't worry about an adult man showing her that he loved her, and thought the world of her.

I've fallen in love with lg's , lots of trimes, and whilst technically I'd love to go out there and shag them, that doesn't mean that that's what I really, really want to do...

It just doesn't work like that. You see, what I'd really want to do, is make them know how special they ere, and maybe get to know them, spend some time with them. Learn about the person, and treasure that, keep it with me for life. Play a game with them that they like, listen to their jokes, and maybe trade some with them, too.

Take them out places, to where they want to go. See some films with them, that they want to see.

Sancho, the 'sex' isn't really all that important. Having an orgasm is someting you can do with the aid of your own hand...

But, sharing something with someone as wonderful as a LG, well, you can't measure that!

Like I say, the 'sex' to me is way down at the bottom when it comes to any priorities.

The LG is far more important, along with making sure that she's happy. If she's happy, well, so am I.

But yes, you're right. There is nothing more valuable than a child, and I'd gladly sacrifice my life for a child, if it ever came to that.

T.