My Alice Day oath...and a GM

Since today is Alice Day, a very special day of celebration for GLers, there is much talk on the board by the dominant pedo populace of things that can be done for the benefit of the LGs, and ways to honor the great beauty that they hold. So I was asking myself earlier today, what can the hebephile faction of the GL populace do for AGs? I have been thinking about it, and I have come to a few decisions on what I can do for both AGs and for an adult like me who was given the gift of appreciating their great levels of beauty, elegance, creativity, and zest for life.

For one thing, I have decided to become the best opponent of the current gerontocentric society that I can possibly be. I will always stay within the bounds of the law, and I will always limit my activities to the highest level of ethics. GLers must set a high standard and live by it, because any bad thing we do reflects poorly on the entire community and increases society's antipathy towards us.

Despite all the technological wonders that have occurred since the Industrial Revolution came about in the latter half of the 19th century up to the present, social progress hasn't always gone forward along with technology. Young people under the age of 18 lost all of their civil rights, society lost all respect for them, and adults who admire them became an additional casualty of this state of affairs by proxy, especially over the past 30 years. That is one of the major reasons why I will do my best to become an agent of change, and an opponent of gerontocentric attitudes and laws that force AGs (and everyone under 18, of course) to be forced into the legal and cultural status of third class citizens. Much abuse occurs to them because of this state of affairs. Too many people try to justify slavery for younger people, and use the argument that the brains of teens are biologically defective and thus having an inherent proclivity towards making poor decisions, as a justification for such an attitude, and this remains a potent cultural belief despite how new studies have made it clear that adolescents are capable of anything that any older adult is capable of. Moreover, actual children are certainly not miniature adults, but they also have much greater potential with the proper education, support, and respect, and children as young as six years old have proven capable of participating in a community where a non-ageist democracy exists courtesy of the Sudbury schools. But young adolescents will receive their freedom first, and once they do, restrictions based upon nothing more than chronological age will be lifted for children also.

There are many other reasons why I will not be a friend to the current status quo but rather an ardent opponent of it. One of them that is directly related to the subject of gerontocracy and GL is the current value systems that expect me to deny and suppress my appreciation for the great physical, intellectual, and emotional beauty of AGs and instead seek out only women who are approaching middle age as possible romantic partners. Society has taken steps towards increasing its respect for diversity among the human race when it comes to romantic and social choices, but sadly, prejudices towards relationships between people who have a significant difference in age remain strong and socially acceptable to harbor. This is largely due to the lack of respect that society has for younger people, and its firm belief that young people lack the wisdom and mental acuity to handle relationships with older people, the latter of whom are always assumed to have superior worldly experience and intellectual decision-making capabilities (while ignoring the state of the world under the control of these supposed fountains of wisdom and decision-making skills). Society also believes that all people are better off hanging out with people of their own age group only.

I'm sorry, but I am just not oriented towards older women. I do not find them attractive either physically or emotionally. Would it be any more fair for them than it would be for me if society expected me to seek out them and only them as romantic partners? Why not someone whom I am fully capable of loving and enjoying my time with to the fullest possible extent? I do not mean to diss on older women. For those men and women who prefer older women, then more power to them. Diversity is a wonderful thing, and I believe older women have as much of a right to find love and companionship as younger women do. But we need a status quo that doesn't take offense at certain aspects of this diversity, and which cares more for a couple's mutual happiness than it does for notions of political correctness or dating within society's comfort zone. Enough scientific evidence has been compiled that makes it clear younger people are not inherently traumatized or emotionally damaged by mutually consensual relationships with anyone, including significantly older people. This includes both children and adolescents. In contrast to what I see in older women (and I have many of them as honored friends), AGs (particularly the younger ones) have a degree of physical beauty, their own type of wisdom, and zeal for adventure that older women just cannot compare to whenever I see their weathered physical appearance and jaded outlook on life that sees living as less of an exciting adventure and more of a difficult task to be fulfilled. AGs have an appreciation for things that mature women just do not possess in most cases, and tend to take life far less seriously, not because life isn't serious sometimes, but because they are determined to enjoy it.

So in addition to becoming a better youth liberationist, I am also taking an oath to live as close to a hebephiliac lifestyle as is legally possible in today's society. That means I will continue to court younger women in the age group of 18-early 20s both romantically and socially in defiance of society's gerontocentric attitudes. It's not the ideal situation for me, but it's the closest I can come legally to living the type of life that a hebephile is naturally meant to live. By doing so, I will prove that a man my age is more than capable of having loving, caring, and mutually beneficial relationships with much younger women (and aren't AGs basically young women themselves?). I will prove that a man my age is quite capable of having much in common with significantly younger women, including social preferences, taste in music, and a zeal for life. And it's my intention to find myself a decent young woman in the age range of 18-early 20s as a girlfriend, not simply to defy society and prove a point to them but also because that will make me happiest. That is the closest I can legally come to "living the life" of a hebephile, and I do not care what my family thinks or whether or not I will be violating the comfort zone of society. I know I can make a young woman in that age range very happy if she is willing to give me a chance, and provided she is compatible with me as an individual. I don't care if it bothers society. And I will strive hard to do all other hebephiles (and GLers in general) proud by being the best man such a young woman could possibly ask for.

I cannot personally think of a better way for a hebephile to honor Alice Day than by swearing by such a double oath: working harder as an agent for change and building myself a lifestyle that I am happiest with and proving to society that love should not be subject to society's approval (while staying within the bounds of the law in both cases).
Nevertheless, I will not embrace a status quo that leaves me no choice other than to settle for second best rather than what would be the most ideal choice for me, nor will I embrace a status quo that is uncomfortable and angry with me for even settling for second best as opposed to what society would be happiest with. But as long as it's legal, I don't care, and neither should anyone else. If not for the rampant age segregation that our society plays a part in, and for its intensive lack of respect for younger people, adults like me would have ample opportunities to prove that people from different age groups have much to offer each other as both romantic partners and friends to socialize with.

And this leads me to another part of this post that resulted in my resolution for Alice Day: a brief GM that is once again sticking in my mind's eye. Yesterday, on the day before Alice Day, I was treated to quite a beautiful sight. I was in a public place with one of my friends as she ran an important errand, and while entering the establishment we walked past a group of older men, and with them was one of the most incredibly beautiful AGs I have ever seen; I estimate that she was about 12-13 years old. She was fairly short, had silky brown hair that was just past her shoulders, a body that any supermodel would kill to have, and very small breasts, no more than an A cup (if that). She was wearing tight blue jeans, a jean jacket, and a tight shirt underneath the jacket which perfectly showed off the perfection of her youthful body. I had the impression that she was the daughter of one of those men, and the other men were her father's friends and/or acquiantances. I could only imagine that at least some of them were wishing they were 13 years old again. I just don't understand how any woman in these men's age group could possibly compare to the paragon of beauty that was standing there talking to them. I really wished I could have approached her and told her how incredible I thought she was, and maybe even asked her to lunch or out to a movie. If only our society didn't have the extreme degree of age segregation and stereotypes that create such enormous barriers between people my age and people her age, as if we live in two entirely separate worlds that intersect with each other but almost never coalesce into one. I really wanted to know what her personality was like. I wanted to know what interests she had, if she could appreciate a guy with my personality, if we would click together as a friend or more, etc. Nevertheless, it was good to be able to peer briefly into her world and envy the men who got to talk to her without arousing any suspicion or ill will from anyone since they were acquainted with her father. I took my opportunity to see such a vision of true loveliness as a gift from Idunn, the Norse goddess of youth, that she gave me on Alice Day. She knows how much I would have treasured such a girl if I was actually able to be a part of her life.

The closest I can come to honoring that girl's tremendous beauty and elegance for Alice Day is to compose a new poem for the story drive and dedicate it not only to this girl, but to every man in my age group who loves and admires girls in young adolescence, and who dreams of a different status quo, one where not only we were respected and considered socially acceptable for our great admiration of these girls, but also where the girls themselves would be respected by society as full citizens who have as much to offer the world as any older person does. I hope to complete the poem later this week.

And yes, I do plan on making one final contribution to Alice Day: a fiscal donation to GC, as I want to do my part to keep the board up and running for people like myself to gather together and support each other and our mission. I have a lot of expenses right now, but I will make a donation as soon as I am able to.

Happy Alice Day to all!