a different angle

I've given my opinion on this subject before here, but it seems to come up every few years and I wonder about it in my mind also. I've lived and dined with blue people and pink people both, so my opinion is a little informed from experience.

First, there are more segments to our race than just blue and pink. There are hebes who have no interest in adults, and those who do; and same with peds. Most often, GL's who are attracted to adults are attracted to women, and BL's who are attracted to adults are attracted to men.

So there is an under current of heterosexuality on GC that is, on some days, very much in the light of day. And so too an under current of homosexuality on BC that is very often on display in all its flaming glory.

There are other possibilities; I have known BL's who are attracted to women, and GL's who are homosexual, but they are very much a minority within a minority.

When exclusive hebes or peds decide to pursue adult relationships, they most often do so in the context of what seems a "natural" orientation to them, GL'ers chasing women, and BL'ers chasing men.

At a gathering of GL's, no one is wondering who's going to end up in whom's bed. At a gathering of BL's, everyone ends up in the same bed - the more the merrier is always true for faggotdom.

Homosexuality is promiscuous; heterosexuality is monogamous. GL's have a single YF typically and guard her jealously. The posts here reflect that singularity. BL's would prefer several YF's who are butt-fucking each other, and the idea of several adults is one to rejoice rather than get the shotgun out over.

Plus, posters on BC perv on each other's siggies, and so have a relationship to each other quite different than the fantasy-land normal fare of GC. You have to understand the sexual dynamic to understand BC. A fellow poster is not just another opinion, and maybe an opportunity for friendship and support like it is on GC; is is something more, and if you can't imagine yourself taking a load of hot cum it probably won't seem a comprehensible space.

I have a good friendship with Markaba, but I disagree with his perception of BC and how people react to people there. He seems so white when he posts blue.

remo