As a hebe, I am attracted to young women in their 20s, and sometimes even into their early 30s, depending upon how young they look and act, but very rarely over that. I generally date young women in the age group of 18-early 20s when I am able to find those willing to date a 40-something-year-old (I look very young for my age--a waitress I met in a restaurant yesterday guessed my age as being 28, and noted that I act like I am 19--but alas I am only average for a guy in the looks department, and that doesn't help matters, of course). So I don't find women in their 20s looking as shockingly old as you do, but they are nevertheless no replacement in my eyes and heart for young AGs (Adolescent Girls, for the benefit of newbies). Even an 18-19-year-old hardly takes the place of an amazing 13-year-old girl for me, but I gotta live with it, because it's the law of the land, and they do tend to provide an adequate alternative that I do have a real measure of physical, emotional, and social attraction to.