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Interesting little piece (and replies)

Posted by The Phantom on 2012-July-09 13:10:25 EDT, Monday

As children, my friend and I were abused together by her father. Now she wants a sexual relationship with me

We slept together recently, which she clearly enjoyed, but I found the experience disturbing. Are we doomed?

By Pamela Stephenson Connolly

The Guardian, UK: 8 July 2012

"Is it possible for me to enjoy a normal sexual relationship with a friend of mine? We're both in our early 20s and as children were abused together by her dad. This has made me very uncomfortable about sex whereas she is more sexually confident. We had sex once when we'd had a few drinks, which was good but I felt very awkward around her being so physically close. It brought back childhood memories. She clearly enjoyed herself and has asked if I'd like to do it again. I'd like to, but I want to be clear-headed without disturbing memories. Are we (as sexual partners) doomed?"
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Re: Interesting little piece (and replies) - qtns2di4 on 2012-July-11 05:44:18 EDT, Wednesday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Interesting little piece (and replies) - Joey Bishop on 2012-July-16 00:00:30 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
  - well said -nt- - Baldur on 2012-July-15 20:14:12 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 0)
Bad Advice - Dante on 2012-July-10 05:20:47 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 32)
- Re: Bad Advice - lee lette on 2012-July-10 09:28:23 EDT, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 31)
  - Reenact? - Dante on 2012-July-11 10:39:52 EDT, Wednesday - (0 / 0 / 29)
    - Re: Reenact? - lee lette on 2012-July-13 09:56:54 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 28)
      - Resolution? - Dante on 2012-July-14 07:05:20 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 12)
        
        Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:33:43 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 11)
        
        Immune from Society? - Dante on 2012-July-15 05:45:14 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 0)
        
        Re: Resolution? - Baldur on 2012-July-14 09:43:35 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 9)
        
        Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 10:03:19 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 8)
        
        Re: Resolution? - Dante on 2012-July-14 18:08:12 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 7)
        
        Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 18:48:15 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 6)
        
        Re: Resolution? - Baldur on 2012-July-15 12:37:01 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 5)
        
        Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-15 09:00:47 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 4)
        
        My case; Regret in hindsight w/ no abuse claim. - Dante on 2012-July-16 08:19:06 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: My case; Regret in hindsight w/ no abuse claim. - lee lette on 2012-July-16 10:30:59 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
        
        Re: Resolution? - Baldur on 2012-July-15 20:12:02 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-16 10:27:44 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
      - Oh! - qtns2di4 on 2012-July-14 06:21:25 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
      - Re: Reenact? - Baldur on 2012-July-13 10:04:44 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 13)
        
        Re: Reenact? - lee lette on 2012-July-13 10:22:02 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 12)
        
        Re: Reenact? - Baldur on 2012-July-13 23:19:03 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 2)
        
        By the way ... - lee lette on 2012-July-17 10:39:53 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: By the way ... - Baldur on 2012-July-18 09:04:59 EDT, Wednesday - (0 / 0 / 0)
        
        Re: Reenact? - BB on 2012-July-13 13:12:53 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 8)
        
        Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-13 21:13:10 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 7)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - Dante on 2012-July-14 06:35:28 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 6)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 08:36:27 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 5)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - BB on 2012-July-14 09:27:26 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - Baldur on 2012-July-14 09:10:07 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 3)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:26:04 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 2)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - BB on 2012-July-14 09:32:29 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:39:49 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
  - Re: Bad Advice - Baldur on 2012-July-10 10:12:35 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 0)