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Posted by Dante on 2012-July-10 05:20:47 EDT, Tuesday

In reply to Interesting little piece (and replies) posted by The Phantom on 2012-July-09 13:10:25 EDT, Monday

The Agony Aunt actually asks why the writer would want to have sex again after finding the experience somewhat "disturbing." In doing so she ignores the acknowledgment that it was good and the desire of the writer to do it again.

She then goes on to the BS conclusion that such a relationship could "retraumatise" them both.

Sorry, that's not how "trauma" works; though it is a necessary concept in the legal arsenal to describe magic voodoo.

Most folks who write to an Agony Aunt get the quality of advice that they deserve for having entrusted their personal business to the person who knows them and their situation the least; and who profits from sensationalism.

Dante

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Responses

Re: Bad Advice - lee lette on 2012-July-10 09:28:23 EDT, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 31)
- Reenact? - Dante on 2012-July-11 10:39:52 EDT, Wednesday - (0 / 0 / 29)
  - Re: Reenact? - lee lette on 2012-July-13 09:56:54 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 28)
    - Resolution? - Dante on 2012-July-14 07:05:20 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 12)
      - Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:33:43 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 11)
        
        Immune from Society? - Dante on 2012-July-15 05:45:14 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 0)
        
        Re: Resolution? - Baldur on 2012-July-14 09:43:35 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 9)
        
        Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 10:03:19 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 8)
        
        Re: Resolution? - Dante on 2012-July-14 18:08:12 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 7)
        
        Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 18:48:15 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 6)
        
        Re: Resolution? - Baldur on 2012-July-15 12:37:01 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 5)
        
        Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-15 09:00:47 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 4)
        
        My case; Regret in hindsight w/ no abuse claim. - Dante on 2012-July-16 08:19:06 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: My case; Regret in hindsight w/ no abuse claim. - lee lette on 2012-July-16 10:30:59 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
        
        Re: Resolution? - Baldur on 2012-July-15 20:12:02 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-16 10:27:44 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
    - Oh! - qtns2di4 on 2012-July-14 06:21:25 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
    - Re: Reenact? - Baldur on 2012-July-13 10:04:44 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 13)
      - Re: Reenact? - lee lette on 2012-July-13 10:22:02 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 12)
        
        Re: Reenact? - Baldur on 2012-July-13 23:19:03 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 2)
        
        By the way ... - lee lette on 2012-July-17 10:39:53 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: By the way ... - Baldur on 2012-July-18 09:04:59 EDT, Wednesday - (0 / 0 / 0)
        
        Re: Reenact? - BB on 2012-July-13 13:12:53 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 8)
        
        Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-13 21:13:10 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 7)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - Dante on 2012-July-14 06:35:28 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 6)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 08:36:27 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 5)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - BB on 2012-July-14 09:27:26 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - Baldur on 2012-July-14 09:10:07 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 3)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:26:04 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 2)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - BB on 2012-July-14 09:32:29 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:39:49 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Bad Advice - Baldur on 2012-July-10 10:12:35 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 0)