Re: Reply

there was nothing in my mind approaching what you are implying [] There was nothing sexual about it. I did something once and then she repeated it.

Thank you for showing what the problem is with evaluating an action by the intentions of the actor. Intentions are not knowable. You may swear again and again which were the intentions behind, but intentions are not observed; only acts. Your act is not distinguishable from an act from someone with a sexual intention.

This is just a single incident that showed to me how easy it is to get children to do what one might want and especially when they are so young

Would it have anything to do with it that you did not cause pain or distress to her?

Which is Dissident's point; of course children can be nudged towards doing things they find they like. His point is that it's not easy to get them to do things that are painful, distressful or even plain boring to them. What you did seems to me to be neither.

Try again with something painful (for non sexual purposes, of course!), and tell us the results.