Agreed

The only point I would make is that kids can lie; but they need to have learned to lie, and it's relatively uncommon that they have - usually for good reason. I remember being told more than once during my childhood that I was a particularly bad liar. How times have changed! But then, that's what high school debating does to you :p Two of three of what I still consider my best ever debates were defending positions that I personally was against. (None of which about GC topics)

Otherwise, all agreed.

Certainly a lot of what I do that I consider to be "grooming" is about reading the girl in body language. Maybe that's why it works - because others shut down their attention to what she says that way...