damn fine exposition

what you say makes a lot of sense.

i just wanted to add my comments to one paragraph of yours:

"In training an animal you reward it for unnatural behaviours you want with something it wants. Hence in the grooming model, anything affirmative on her part can be claimed to be a response to things the Antis can conceive a minor of wanting: ie bribes of some sort. She can clearly want, and it can still be denied that she wants what she claims to want."

that goes right along with the meme of the man with candy in the white van.

i have no knowledge or experience of what teenagers or adult women want, but i know exactly what every little girl wants. every little girl loves attention. i can go to any party with children and before i know it i've drawn 1 or 2 little girls over to me. i don't have to chase them they come to me.

i have read in the archives some guys asking about christmas gifts, i say never give a little girl anything more than a token. you are just attracting attention and training her to value that stuff, when all she really wants is your attention.

so you give her attention, she develops positive feelings and affection for you. is that unnatural? i had the idea that was how adult relationships form? (again i don't really know about that)

so the antis are worried about the weirdos, but its actually the nice guys who win their little girls hearts. LOL, how could he be a pedophile, my little girl loves him so much, she's not afraid and she never comes home with expensive gifts. LOL