I add this now, so that I don't have to comment your future answer.
Some people began to use the term because Blanchard had coined it, some people began to use it because I had coined it. What does it matter? It is not very important to me.
To me it meansprimarilyan adult who is attracted to other adults. We need such a term.
As I said, it is not very important to me. It would be much more important that I get my stories ready and published. They are not easy stories, they are quite cryptic and esoteric. One professor said that the publishing houses are withering, so many future authors nowadays try to get famous in some other way before trying to publish their works. They climb on roofs, make the world record of farting, or go to talk shit on TV. All such rubbish is of course below me.
And that final outrage: what has literary skill to do with your face? It should not matter at all if you are young and handsome or old and ugly, it has nothing whatsoever to do with literature.