"Even harder to find on the web than positive memories are the testimonies of girls who wanted to have sex with older guys, but they refused because it was illegal, and the girl felt seriously harmed."

There are a number of reasons why such testimonies are hard to find. First, they are actively suppressed by numerous cultural forces; second, women feel a much stronger need to go along with the perceived majority than men do, for evolutionary reasons, and therefore are less likely to rock the boat; third, it is more difficult to write about things that didn't happen than things that did.

However, I have often found - in places online and off - that there are many women who quietly object to the moral panic over pedophilia, who know that girls often love men and love the men who love little girls, and who will never so much as whisper a hint of their true thoughts unless they believe that they are surrounded by people who will not reject them on that account.




Baldur