Pedophilia is not a bad word. The love of children isn't bad.
Pederasty is not a bad word. Sexual liaisons with minors aren't bad by themselves.
Grooming is not a bad word. Listening to a Girl, understanding her, helping her get through beautiful and wonderful but difficult and stressful years of her life isn't bad.
Sexting is not a bad word. Sharing a pic and mutually fantasizing about it is safer than any meatspace physical contact will ever be, even with someone generally reliable.
Intergenerational is not a bad word. An experienced, wise, savvier, more decentered adult is preferrable to a fumbling, ignorant, self centered peer. Ignorance is not evil, but "never attribute to evil that which can be attributed to ignorance"; they often have similar effects.
I'm on the right side, of history, of ethics, of biology, and (sorry) of religion.
I will keep fighting on the right side. Today and tomorrow and the day after. Forever until God calls me.