I used to do it. Not sure why I don't have the desire to these days. Too busy and too tired in my free time I suppose. It's probably one of the easiest ways to be near the ones we love with an airtight excuse to be there. Good for those who don't have many other venues available. It's especially good for those who are able to keep their attraction low key. Not for those who get easily overcome with adoration and can't help but let the entire world see them stick out like a sore thumb. You also need to have the kind of mind to not secretly fall into obsessive love and severe depression. That last part was a learned talent for me. Seems you have these qualities, Shaper. Good to see you.