For your modesty and awareness of some who've actually never had a LGF at all. This requires a level of evolution that is quickly lost on anyone who was never taught to consider the reality of others (and I am quite definitely not perfect in that department).
VoA... sigh... how many times over the years have I been asked who I am there. I'm not there. I'm not anywhere else. Enjoy my 4 or 5 posts over the last decade at any other girl love oriented site. I have no social media accounts either. I was overly paranoid before it was cool. That's partly why I still exist. Does it suck? Yes. I'd love to be free. I'd love to be me.
Yeah, I think it's possible to adore multiple girls at once. It's just a mindset difference, between acquiring seduced disciples for validation and being acquired by the young hackers of your dreams for their own purposes.