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I relate

Posted by Eeyore on Saturday, July 14 2018 at 07:10:00AM
In reply to mutual contact? posted by The Warrior on Saturday, July 14 2018 at 02:37:59AM

In hindsight, I think you had the right idea all along. It's a roll of the dice getting to know people offboard or offline, and not just the danger of hostile fakers. The love of girls alone also means nothing in terms of GL's being a good personal friendship match. I think many of us overlook that usually obvious fact in our exuberance to relate to someone with similar attractions. In one case, I was even advised by someone in another part of the world to get to know someone once they discovered my general location. How naive we can be, before we learn enough to open our eyes.

I still feel good about the people I still interact with, but am now mostly turned off to getting to know anyone else in the future. I mean, think about it. It's no different than being a "normal" hetero adult male who prefers adult women, and thinking you're gonna get along great with any other guy with an attraction to women. Just not a logical assumption to make, regardless of one's need to relate and share their own attraction with people attracted to the same. Too much work for me at this point to determine who's safe, who's not, who's a nut, or who's prone to backstabbing later. This is not me saying I don't think anyone else should meet one another. It's only my personal experience and current choice, as well as a mild warning to others to have some forethought.

Thanks to the one who explained it to me. I agreed more than I knew.

Eeyore





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