j_k wrote:

"It is usually the child who does the dumping."

How do you know that? You can't know that for a fact. You may wish to believe it but you cannot *know* it. And even if it were incontrovertibly true, what about the children who are not included in the "usually"?

Are they and their delicate feelings just to be ignored like so much trash by pedophiles...girllovers...MAPS?

Sounds terrible doesn't it, but it's bound to be true in many, many cases. How can anyone who professes to *love* children as much as pedophiles say they do, stand for the idea that so many children will possibly/probably suffer the heartache that is so often likely to occur when a pedophile is ready to "move on".

This just doesn't make sense to me.