What would I call THEM?

I, and many BLs and GLs, DO talk about lost yfs and how we pine for them and worry about them and hope they are doing well. I don't know how long you have been here but it is talked about.

Specifically, how might the lose of a caring AF/yf relationship hurt a minor? It would depend on the exact situation. If it was a sudden ending for a negative reason, yes it would hurt them for sure. Just like losing a good friend or a loved family member moves away or something similar.

Yes there are bad pedophiles, just like there are bad teliophiles. So, yes there are assholes who would do that unfortunately. Even if it never got sexual people who treat kids badly should not be around them. You yourself said in a different post that most people here seem to care about kids. Personally I try to stay away from the seedy parts of the net where I could run into people like that and talk to more positive people.

That kind of negative ending of a relationship is not always how it happens and is not how it should happen ideally. No I obviously can't give you statistics and research to back up my opinions, only my observations from my personal experience and from talking to people in this community for over 15yrs.

"I don't particularly care about your own individual experiences."

So, how should we form our opinions about the ideal pedophile culture?

I gave you a snippet of mine. No thoughts?