I don't include EE with Anti's. I think of him as one of us (a pedo) and my point is that we are all hated by Anti's. The virtuous approach is just as much a waste of time on Anti's as is pro choice IMO. Haters gonna hate. And their hate is deadly serious. I was trying to say that he should not attack you or any pro choice argument at the expense of excusing hate.
I not have way with words, to paraphrase Steve Martin.