In the military, I had been tested for hearing and got yelled at because I was not doing the test correctly. I sat through it again, and got yelled at again. (Well, not actually yelled, but you get my point.) They called in the attending physician who sat in the little room with me and cleared my test (I had been doing it all along correctly.) The problem was, my high pitch hearing is extremely sensitive compared to others. My readings in the high frequencies went off the little card that scored my results. They immediately suggested that I go for sonar technician. I declined.

Here's the point. And I quote you:

"sexy boys"

You can hear "sexy boys" but I cannot. I see a boy and I see a boy. You see a boy and see "sexy" boy. I can hear (some cheap) dog whistles, you cannot.

I certainly understand people seeing sexiness in boys. To take that one step further, I cannot see how any female (young or old) can see ME as being sexually desirable. I just can't see it. Yet, in my life, many females have wanted desperately to be with me in a sexual way. (Young and old.) Ha, ha; just not now! :D