Staying undercover is best. I mean, obviously. But...
I was involved with my little lover for 4 years. For two or three years after that (I forget, it might have been three years), She wrote and even visited me while I was on my extended vacation. It was after those years when She was a young teenager that society got to Her and changed Her mind into rejecting me forever.
I am not advocating stepping outside the law for that exact reason. She got hurt.
I was just pointing out that it's not all doom and gloom.
Regarding this post and every post I write about myself describing my past, be advised that I was tried, convicted, sentenced to a very long time in prison, and I served the complete sentence. Be further advised that I am no longer practicing illegal activities today and that I refrain from doing so by my own choice, not from fear of legal entanglements or society's outrage. I remain crime free because I choose to.