We have a sometimes cantankerous (but nonetheless lovable) poster here that tends to lash out at "our own" but often has information that we don't see in the GC thread. I was going to post something 'in an earlier post' that his comments appeared to be friendly fire but waited, thinking he knows something I don't.
I'll take you for your word here and in your other posts until proven otherwise.
Personally I always "differentiate" pedo's; there are as many different "types" as there are people. Humans are infinitely complex and all unique.
Re: pedophilia, I have found for myself that there is much more to it than just the sexual attraction. I am romantically and emotionally seduced by little girls as well. Being under the spell of their eye contact or the reach of their hand for mine is a thrill for all my senses and uplifts me and makes me remember I am alive. I refuse to simplify my pedophilia to simple definitions or classifications.
Keep posting RV, this board needs more like you.