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not familiar with your personal orientation

Posted by Eeyore on Thursday, May 02 2019 at 05:55:52AM
In reply to Magic posted by Gimwinkle on Tuesday, April 30 2019 at 1:43:24PM

I've often heard that adult attracted men with positions of power tend to be the ones who get excited most often by adult women dominating them in sex and foreplay.

I'm not sure what would be the driving factor for girl-loving men. I've pondered that many times and am somewhat stumped. On one level, I can rationalize one reason, that because you aren't forcing or pressuring a girl when she's the one dominating you, then it may follow that you feel you can just enjoy without concern that you might be making her do things against her will.

I've heard feminists try to claim adult female doms are still being manipulated, even though the reality is they just hate dick and their mental illness sees anything heterosexual as patriarchal and oppressive, so I am sure they'd have their own fembabbly input for this subcategory as well, since they know what we are thinking better than we do. Theoretically, it may be possible to force or pressure someone into dominating you, I suppose, but I've only ever imagined girls who were drawn to the idea rather than having to push them toward it.

I dunno... you make a good point. There might be some sort of nostalgia for one's own boyhood, its innocence and lack of cares. Being dominated by a LG might not only relieve an older male of concerns that he is pressuring her, but also allow him to temporarily sink into this nostalgia of former identity. If a girl so young can dominate me, then maybe her orientation toward me helps validate why I like her.

Just taking swings at it. It puzzles me as well.

OTOH, I've been round long enough to know there's those with a strong preference of being dominating themselves, finding girls easier to entertain themselves in this regard, sometimes to a rather dark degree. I can see myself role-playing that domination for a girl who desires it (and many do get off on the strength and power of an older bigger male love interest within an environment that feels safe to them).

Some guys want to dominate forcefully and for real. I've never been able to relate to that.

Just trying to note the attraction to the idea of girls dominating in a sexual manner isn't a preference as a whole, so you may not want to presume it is a typical part of being attracted to girls.

Eeyore





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