GirlChat #729080
has a case of the Mondays!
It's your right to feel shitty by choice. I'm just from a time when people didn't declare it except when it had become too much for them and they were seeking pointers or actual help. Otherwise, you would grin and bear it like a man, power through, and not try to bring everyone else down with you. I understand, in some circles such things are now some noble badge of honor instead of a burden that needs to be offloaded. Hell, it will even win some admirers who will gladly dwell there with you now, and tell you how meaningful your self sacrifice of doing nothing to improve your own situation or that of anyone else around you really is. It means SOOO MUCH. So go ahead and engage the dying of the light. Remember, a rage response is toxic masculinity. Let go and embrace the helplessness. |