But "setup" wouldn't really be the correct word to use in that case.

A loving consensual relationship necessitates honest commitment in the present, as opposed to preemptive manipulation. Besides, your intended meaning was not the same as the meaning of the post you were offering an indirect affirmative reply to.

RedViolin was probably engaging in harmless fantasy... but they also come across as someone searching for guidance, and I wanted to make it clear that Girl Chat is not one of the places where people go to abandon common sense moral values which conflict with their desires... but rather, one of the few places where people go in order to develop the clarity and resolve needed to entertain a pro-social balance between the two functions.

~ Rainbow