1., 8. Decided to exclude herself.
2. Focused on the unimportant.
3., 4., 5., 10., 11., 12., 17., 18., 19. Can't see her.
6. Don't see her enough.
7. Narcissistic and self centered.
9. Hypocritical.
13. A combination of 9., 7., and 2.
14., 15., 16. Liars, focused on the unimportant.

Meh.

Everyone chooses what they are.