GirlChat #731642
So, I would offer a rebuttal:
Walk into a job interview for a ditch digging position. Usually(!) you wear a clean pair of jeans, a clean shirt, maybe a tie, combed hair, and steel toe boots. You smile. Later, after being at work for several weeks, you are a muddy mess. In your interview, did you groom the interviewer? Okay, then. A sexual encounter. You meet a blind date and take her to a nice expensive restaurant (which you happily pay the bill yourself.) You have on fresh aftershave, your hair is combed, you politely ask if she would like to come up to your condo to have a nice warm shot of bourbon. Nothing sexual happened. A handshake, a smile, and she goes home. Later, you meet up again at a different expensive restaurant. After the nice warm shot of bourbon in your condo, something sexual does, indeed, happen. Were you grooming her? |