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Posted by Eeyore on Saturday, February 22 2020 at 03:41:21AM
In reply to Quality of life posted by luckless on Friday, February 21 2020 at 06:03:43AM

I do have an issue that I'd never reveal here simply for the sake of ID'ing me, but I doubt it is connected to my love for girls. Perhaps it is, but I tend to think it is not. Anyone still around who I met knows what it is.

Of all others I met in years past, I can say that I encountered different issues in some, and yet in others, nothing out of the ordinary was noticeable. The most obvious one would of course be autism. Some people just have an easier time relating to kids, which I've never viewed as anything terrible or dishonest or detrimental. Many with autism are utterly brilliant in certain ways, and the kids they adore can often benefit greatly from the gifting of this knowledge. This does not relate to my personal annoyance for many with autism. The fact that they often bug me does not mean I discredit their love for kids in any way. It just means they often bug me on some weird primal level that I honestly cannot get past. No offense intended.

I've also (sadly) encountered people who were sometimes severely sexually abused as kids themselves, in ways no true child lover would ever deem to be acceptable. Some are dead. Some are in prison. Some have died in prison. Ghost Writer is the example I usually give here. I met him several times in person, and he had some very noble attributes about himself, but it was pretty easy to tell that something in his mind was misfiring, and you could even see it in his eyes. He privately related things to me from his own childhood that were disturbing, to put it mildly. His entire life was ruined by those particular experiences, and eventually led to his early end. He holds a special place in my heart for what he taught me without trying to. There is real love between adults and willing children. There is also definitely real and terrible child sexual abuse.

Some others have had huge egos, and simply decided for themselves that whatever they desired, well, the world can simply go fuck itself and they were going to go scratch their itch, everyone else be damned. These are usually the people who also feel they are invincible and usually wind up getting busted.

Two experiences of sadists, neither of whom I actually met in person but did have private contact with. One I stupidly gave out my phone number to and let him call me, was into fictional depictions of murdering females of any age and wanted to know if I was as into that as he was. The other had a huge fetish for "rape dungeons" for girls, and complete control. I knew the latter person a little better, and discovered that he had an extremely pestering, nosy and domineering mother that he resented with a passion. Apparently, in the psych world, this is not a huge surprise.

I met another two who were just really melancholy and lost, and battled chronic depression. Neither of them seemed to be the slightest danger to kids, but they were suffering.

Then there's the few I met in person and a few other I've never met in person who just naturally seem to navigate through it all with ease. They are generally positive people. They do adore kids, but don't seem one-track-minded obsessive about it, AND they tend to lead full lives in which they have other interests and hobbies and regularly interact socially with other people of all ages in person. These would be my personal role models. They are not so many in number, and they unfairly tend to fly under the radar for the rest of us, but they definitely exist, and we could certainly learn a whole helluva lot from them.

Btw, GC is not invisible. It's an increasingly weird outlander of non-GMO seeds. I know that I know you, but don't remember why I think that. I always make a point to click your posts. Never let a lack of replies here, tell you that nobody on the internet is studying your thoughts:p

Eeyore





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