One side wants to legalize something and criminalize something else. The other side wants to legalize the opposite thing and criminalize the opposite thing.

Both sides are opposing each other in a way that has effects on the lives of the others and yet talking about those differences is a grave sin.

Is it better that we get violent?

I have no anger in talking politics even when talking to the bizare social justice warrior types. As long as they aren't engaging in their usual censorship, cancel culture, and name-calling.