I've known a couple men that were ugly, had no career and no money, pretty disgusting bodies, and weren't particularly funny or intelligent and had no problem getting attractive adult women. I don't know what their trick was, and couldn't come up with a way of asking how they were able to manage that without being insulting.

>>Many people prefer to be selfish

Humans in general I think are viciously selfish. One of the reasons why I think getting married is generally the stupidest thing a man can do, pedo or not.