If you were to ask which was healthier.. looking at sketchy material online or being in a mutually loving relationship, I would always say being in a loving relationship.

On the flip side of that, if you were to ask which one carries the greater risk, looking at sketchy stuff (presumably on the dark web) or having a relationship on the sly with the neighbor's daughter next door.. you already know which one carries the riskier logistics. That rarely ends well.