I'm out of the loop a bit, but I couldn't agree more. I haven't been around "the scene" for about five years. Not on the dark net and I use Twitter and Discord for decidedly different purposes. I did see that Todd Nickerson was on there a while back, but haven't kept up with it.
FWIW, my politics are more left wing than they've ever been, but I'm more on the left libertarian and populist side than "woke" or identitarian, whatever you want to call it. There may come a day when sexual minorities include us in their umbrella groups again, but there's not much sense in desperately forcing it right now.