I'm sorry to hear things have been tough since the arrest was made public. That's something I've been the most afraid of, especially if my parents found out. I wish you the best of luck and I hope things improve.
It does help to talk about this this stuff, well it helps me an awful lot at least, so I've put together a list of organisations I know are safe to speak to, in case anyone wants to go down that route.

I'll have a look to see if I can find any more and add them to the list if they're ok.

Hope this helps