...within the last couple years. In part thanks to your posts about it.

I am not exclusive, so it wouldn't be completely forced/fake either.

Why waste that? Plus, a partner allows for more little girls in my life. As you said, you get treated as odd if you are older, single and not obviously gay. It is what it is. I am no longer 22 where people thought it was cute an endearing how little girls loved being with me and I was an amazing babysitter.

Now I'm 30s and single and little girls still love being with me, but "why is he still single? Hmm, that's very odd..."

Something I definitely didn't predict in my earlier years as a child lover, though I should have.