is this a bet?

We should play sometime and see if you do lose, or maybe you will win.

Seriously. I have no friends, LOL.
I need some hahaha.

I don't think I would win because NONE of those come from my own head. Not one. I heard them from others and took note of what they say.

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What kind of terrible damage is done to a poor innocent girl's developing self-image, who has normal feelings and simply pursues her normal female desire to find a male partner she can connect with and love...when she is stigmatized this way by her community...simply for having feelings, for wanting to bond with a male - for being the same as every other good woman, only younger/smaller?