I respect your thinking and logic. We live in a very precarious position in this world. I really wish we could all sit face to face and discuss in person, but that would be fraught with danger.
That being said, I have long longed for a warm loving relationship with a preteen girl.
Yes. I go out in public and I see a gorgeous young girl walking past. I pretend not to notice but I watch. I will shift position and watch her sexy form walk away. Not staring, not giving visible facial clues. And yes, I am aroused!
But avoidance is certainly the best policy. I've known this my whole adult life.