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Grow out of attraction

Posted by redcocoa101 on 2011-December-05 20:33:29 EST, Monday

I was just wondering, for the people who have certain ages they like, for example 8-11 year olds, or 12-15 year olds or something like that, is it fair for you to pursue a relationship with them? Assuming it was legal, and you could date YG's is it fair to date them if they're going to grow out of your attraction?

I mean if you love them and put lots of time and effort into a relationship, and they love you and put themselves out there to be in a relationship with you, and they age out and become unattractive to you what do you do? It just seems that the girl you're dating is dating someone older (who isn't getting any younger) and they invest their love into you, is it right to do that if ultimately it won't you know you won't stay?

It just seems unfair to the girl you're with that they fall in love with someone and then they become a certain age and that person might not want them anymore.

It's just a theoretical situation and I was wondering how that type of problem would be addressed.

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Re: Grow out of attraction - alant on 2011-December-09 02:10:40 EST, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
The first girl I loved was four when we met. - Paedestrian on 2011-December-08 11:56:35 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Great thread, by the way. Thanks, redcocoa! -nt- - Paedestrian on 2011-December-08 11:59:49 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
Re: Grow out of attraction - Dante on 2011-December-07 19:09:14 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
Re: Grow out of attraction - qtns2di4 on 2011-December-07 03:26:44 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
Just like with any true love - Stahntii, The Acrobat on 2011-December-06 22:25:51 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 2)
- Reasonable - redcocoa101 on 2011-December-08 05:15:48 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
  - Agreed - Markaba on 2011-December-08 06:52:29 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
I have a big variety - Oakowi on 2011-December-06 12:21:19 EST, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
Re: Grow out of attraction - Little Girl Lover on 2011-December-06 10:52:55 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
Impermanence - Baldur on 2011-December-06 10:10:23 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 13)
- And I'll add (to clarify) - Stahntii on 2011-December-06 22:39:44 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Impermanence - Markaba on 2011-December-06 21:54:48 EST, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 11)
  - Re: Impermanence - Baldur on 2011-December-07 11:35:13 EST, Wednesday - (3 / 0 / 0)
  - Re: Impermanence - Dissident on 2011-December-06 22:37:08 EST, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 6)
    - Re: Impermanence - Markaba on 2011-December-07 01:02:48 EST, Wednesday - (3 / 0 / 5)
      - Re: Impermanence - Dissident on 2011-December-07 16:29:24 EST, Wednesday - (3 / 0 / 4)
        
        If I may butt in... - lgsinmyheart on 2011-December-07 19:27:35 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 3)
        
        Re: If I may butt in... - Dissident on 2011-December-07 19:48:24 EST, Wednesday - (3 / 0 / 2)
        
        Re: If I may butt in... - lgsinmyheart on 2011-December-07 20:05:23 EST, Wednesday - (3 / 0 / 1)
        
        In other words - lgsinmyheart on 2011-December-07 20:11:20 EST, Wednesday - (3 / 0 / 0)
  - Re: Impermanence - Minstrel on 2011-December-06 22:32:49 EST, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 2)
    - Apples and oranges--NT - Markaba on 2011-December-07 20:16:44 EST, Wednesday - (3 / 0 / 0)
    - Gather Ye Rosebuds While Ye May ... - Baldust on 2011-December-07 11:26:23 EST, Wednesday - (3 / 0 / 0)
What would be unfair about it? - Hierophant on 2011-December-06 06:24:01 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
Re: Grow out of attraction - Markaba on 2011-December-05 22:06:35 EST, Monday - (1 / 0 / 14)
- Read it again - Strider@ThePub on 2011-December-06 20:00:21 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Grow out of attraction - lgsinmyheart on 2011-December-06 03:55:19 EST, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 11)
  - Let's all keep this in mind... - Dissident on 2011-December-06 23:06:59 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
  - Re: Grow out of attraction - Markaba on 2011-December-06 07:03:22 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 4)
    - Re: Grow out of attraction - lgsinmyheart on 2011-December-07 02:31:51 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 3)
      - Re: Grow out of attraction - Markaba on 2011-December-07 03:33:24 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 2)
        
        Re: Grow out of attraction - lgsinmyheart on 2011-December-07 04:33:28 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: Grow out of attraction - Dissident on 2011-December-07 16:57:04 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
  - come on it's a legitimate point - nihil_aeturnius on 2011-December-06 04:59:08 EST, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 4)
    - You have another option: - Aramis on 2011-December-08 21:10:52 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
    - Re: come on it's a legitimate point - lgsinmyheart on 2011-December-07 02:12:34 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
    - Only if that point is located atop the head - Dissident on 2011-December-06 23:03:42 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
    - Generalizations - Strider@ThePub on 2011-December-06 19:58:56 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Grow out of attraction - FreeThinkerGL on 2011-December-05 22:23:28 EST, Monday - (1 / 0 / 0)
Many possibilities - Strider@ThePub on 2011-December-05 21:04:30 EST, Monday - (1 / 0 / 18)
- So that's a Yes? - redcocoa101 on 2011-December-05 21:30:01 EST, Monday - (2 / 0 / 17)
  - Re: So that's a Yes? - Dissident on 2011-December-06 23:20:20 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
  - 'Ruined' girls - Strider@ThePub on 2011-December-06 19:53:40 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
  - Re: So that's a Yes? - qtns2di4 on 2011-December-06 03:48:17 EST, Tuesday - (2 / 0 / 12)
    - Re: So that's a Yes? - Markaba on 2011-December-06 07:18:20 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 11)
      - Hardwired? - Dante on 2011-December-07 18:26:42 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 9)
        
        Re: Hardwired? - Markaba on 2011-December-07 22:47:06 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 6)
        
        'Nevertheless' - Dante on 2011-December-08 20:01:37 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
        
        Re: Hardwired? - qtns2di4 on 2011-December-08 17:58:56 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
        
        Re: Hardwired? - Dissident on 2011-December-08 01:22:47 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 3)
        
        Exactly - qtns2di4 on 2011-December-08 17:51:17 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 2)
        
        Hmmm - Sancho Panza on 2011-December-08 18:11:42 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: Hmmm - Baldur on 2011-December-08 21:56:55 EST, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
        
        That really sucks - Hypersonic on 2011-December-07 18:56:57 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 1)
        
        Re: That really sucks - Dante on 2011-December-07 19:38:37 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
      - Re: So that's a Yes? - qtns2di4 on 2011-December-07 01:22:51 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 0)
  - Re: So that's a Yes? - zlurker on 2011-December-05 22:29:42 EST, Monday - (1 / 0 / 0)
  - I still like your idea - Hypersonic on 2011-December-05 21:49:16 EST, Monday - (1 / 0 / 0)
It's usually that way, even for non's - Hypersonic on 2011-December-05 20:46:59 EST, Monday - (1 / 0 / 1)
- Re: It's usually that way, even for non's - zlurker on 2011-December-05 21:48:27 EST, Monday - (1 / 0 / 0)