Let's face it, what we in this forum are thinking of primarily are girls with men, right? Not little budding lesbians, and not boys.

But even this case is of interest. It's not clear from the excerpt that what he wanted to do was to engage in sexual activity with the men, as in manipulating the men's genitals to give them pleasure or vice versa. He does not describe going to his cabin and masturbating to orgasm 3 times. Someone who wrote that might have been up for some flirting or backrubs, not actual sexual activity. I don't know what that particular man actually wanted, but I note the possibility. Just as girls may want to flirt with men, to see the effect they have, and to have some romantic thoughts.