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Re: Introduction + question about 'coming out'

Posted by lawndog on 2003-March-17 12:22:12 EST, Monday
In reply to Introduction + question about 'coming out' posted by YogiBear on 2003-March-16 22:27:33 EST, Sunday

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I had to laugh reading Peter's post- just like he describes, I was pretty drunk when I came out to those that I have. I advise against that method- leads to lots of slapping of one's self on the head saying 'stupid, stupid, stupid.'

While I never intended to come out that way, I did intend to come out. Since I never could figure out a "good" way to do so, it just creeped out when I was at my least inhibited. I advise that you make a concious decision to come out in a sober state of mind; free of anger or passions of drink/drugs. You'll have a better time of it, and lots less damage control to do the next day. I don't regret coming out even in such a way, and have since taken the time to talk rationally about it with the people I told. Still, I wish I had taken my time and done it better the first time.

anyway- welcome! and good luck!

LD


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