I seem to remember...

...him saying that he DID already know he was attracted to kids before he got married. I did not mean to imply that he does not love and care for his wife. He clearly does...but it does not always SEEM that way. After all he seems to care little if any about her SEXUAL needs. He just pretends that you can have an adult relationship without sexual contact and it's all ok. He is living in a fantasy world if he believes that..

I was with my gf for over six years before I had ANY clue that I felt that way about lg's (and then it was a series of events that made me aware of it). So, even though it's now been over 4 years that I know of my other attractions, it is still relatively new to me. That said I still love my gf AND am very attracted to her. She makes me just as hot as some lg's I have seen. If I no longer felt that sexual desire for her, she would know it immediately and it WOULD affect our relationship and eventually she would need someone else to satisfy HER desires. That's all I'm saying. I don't think you can go thru life without feeing hurt and pain. That IS part of life. But is it fair to your PARTNER that you can go out and get off and SHE can't???

Inf.