Nothing Dull About It

Hi Febri-chan,

Thank you for sharing those little anecdotes. They were anything but dull, although the anti's might think so. Your stories fly in the face of their preconceived and rabidly held notions of Pedophile=child molester, and its corollary, celibate pedophiles are just child molesters in waiting.

I too, have had more than one opportunity to "play" with some of the kids I know. I am now in my late 50's and have never succumbed to the temptation. My question to the anti's is this:

"If a Child Lover in his late fifties has been around children for the better part of his adult life, and despite having more than one opportunity, has not molested any of them, at what age do you suppose he will begin?"

The vast majority of Pedosexual people are normal folks who happen to have a special affinity for children. Just as same age attracted heterosexuals or gay men can work with, be around, and have friendships with those to whom they are attracted, so too can pedosexual people. We do not, a priori, lack the self control to stay within the boundaries of the law, even if we disagree with it. And, I might add, you and I are far from the only bonafide Child Lovers who can claim pedosexual virginity:))

Unfortunately, once your orientation is discovered, the same tired old mantra will surface, "If he thinks of them sexually, he will eventually molest. Keep him the hell away from children!" It is for this reason that those of us whose lives center around being with children, cannot yet come out of the toybox.

One day the truth will come out. One day we will be invited to do what we do best; love, nurture, and care for our kids. One day the persecution will end. Until that day however, we should be free with our affections and our love, but keep the sexual desires strictly in Fantasy Land..

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