Yes it scares the s**t out of me thinking of what I would do in those moments. I think the smile is the best when you are that close Capt; I think Jensman you did the best thing in looking away in a situation like that when you can, and I am so glad you were both lucky.
It also makes me angry to think of how they think of us. What do they think we are going to do? Zap their little daughters with our sex-ray eyes? WE ARE ONLY LOOKING AT THEM!!!!