Re: Discussions...

"the curiosity of a young child can easily lead to exploration of an adults body, genitals included. the child might also be proactive in exhibiting his or her own genitals to the adult and inviting touch.

many 4 or 6 year olds will quite naturally initiate this kind of behaviour.

the adult is faced with two options. discourage the behaviour, at the risk of discouraging a fundamentally healthy attitude and impulse, or go along with it, at the risk of going to jail and exposing the child to the hostile and fearful reactions from society."

You are absolutely correct when you say this age does such explorations. I see it all the time in RL. I know a LOT of young girls in this age bracket and they do exactly that. They explore and it is innocent. But there are other alternatives. I wish I could speak freely but I cannot.

You do not have to say anything is wrong but rather accept and say something simple as I do: "That is nice." and let it go at that eh? I do not say what they do is wrong but rather put it in such a context that it is not that important. They can do as they wish and I will accept that but do not feel any reason to escalate it.

They are curious and all but in RL I have been in situs where we bathe together etc and so I understand it for what it is. I often am with naked little girls and so I give them wide latitude as to how they act. They are curious. We don't have to discourage them at all. I simply allow them to be themselves. Then you explain society versus reality and they understand. Do not assume little girls are stupid eh? Even Gabby at 3 understands that what we do in private is different than what we do in public.

I wish I could just write an answer here.

The girls are curious but we keep it clean.

I have up to 6 girls at the house at a time and we share MANY situations. I have never told a girl she was wrong and she has never perceived me as being wrong either. You do not have to traumatize a girl but rather you can be honest and still make her understand.

Little Gabby does not understand why she cannot touch my "tail" but she accepts that we cannot because society says so and they are not necessarily correct.

I can't write this. This is BS. It is correct that girls explore.

All I know is that a half dozen or less LG's come here every weekend and we love each other beyond reason. We shower together and sleep together etc. Are they curious? Yep and we talk about it while being naked in the shower. It is nothing. When they mention it I explain and show them. They do the same. This is nothing.

This is what it should be - the other alternative.

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