You're right

She never implied, imho, that "sexy" was the only quality you find in girls. She *did* imply that you want / wish for every little girl to be only what you like, which I know is false and which could get you angry (it would to me).

My issue, however, was...

What I find to be cute, funny, saucy, independent, et cetera, doesn't have to be the same thing you find sexy.

...the specific qualities- or lack of- suggested for my individual preferences vs. her's. [You have to admit, the qualities applied to her and I were different there. Intentionally or otherwise.] You know me well enough, Legs, to know that my interest in girls sure as hell doesn't boil down to a mere "sexy" and should understand how reading this between the lines can be insulting.

Nitpicky, perhaps, but I just didn't dig the wording.

I would also suggest BHN knows me better than this, considering a previous on-board discussion I had with her.

This is a misunderstanding and I'm past it.