I am not sure if you have noticed since being a CL you will not be looking but much of adult porn is actually more about the hatred of females than anything else. Since when did anal sex and all the other permutations become the norm?

Mmmhmmm, and men are depicted so positively in typical adult pornography, right? And lots of women enjoy anal sex and lots of the other activities that the porn-haters claim to be signs of "hatred" of females. This includes rape and S&M dominance fantasies.