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Re: What about the parent's right

Posted by DRMR on 2013-August-13 04:03:11 EDT, Tuesday
In reply to What about the parent's right posted by concerned_aunt on 2013-August-12 19:44:55 EDT, Monday

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In order to have complete child liberation, you have to set rules on parents how to raise and present themselves in front of their child.

I think it can be an agreement with the kid instead of rules for the parent(s).

Children tend to adapt the belief system their parents have until they are closer to their teen years when they adapt their own, and the majority of times it ends up to be some version of their parents beliefs at the end.

It doesn't have to be that way. We, as parents, can instead, explore belief systems together, from a very early age. They are not us and they will find the system that fits them best without our prejudices.

If the parents are uneasy about sexual matters, the kids tend to adapt that.

Yes, they are very much affected by it.

If the parents are uneasy about sexual matters, the kids tend to adapt that.

I very much agree. But you know, C_A, that is not a popular opinion.

You are deceiving yourselves if you could do it without the parent.

Okay, if the parent is a loving parent like you, yes. If not, it could be done without the parent (and probably should). And I am not talking about sex, just to be clear.

It took me until high school to finally take a step forward from what had happen.

I think it would have been easier for you and you would have not had to wait until high school to step forward if you were 'raised' in a society where young people were given access to ALL information about love and sex and guided by someone who loves them to sort it out. It would be very good if that person was the parent.

Hugs C_A. You are doing great, IMHO.

DRMR


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