What about the parent's right

In order to have complete child liberation, you have to set rules on parents how to raise and present themselves in front of their child. Children tend to adapt the belief system their parents have until they are closer to their teen years when they adapt their own, and the majority of times it ends up to be some version of their parents beliefs at the end. When I was young, I decided that I don't believe in the catholic church. I went to experiment by visiting different types of christian churches. I even went as far in my experimentation to go to a Scientology center. Even though my husband is a baptist, I still ended up going back to the catholic church. It was the only church that felt like home.

If the parents are uneasy about sexual matters, the kids tend to adapt that. The parents doesn't even have to say anything about sex. They just have to behave in a way when the subject is presented to them. If you think kids learn more by the parent's lecture, then you are strongly mistaken. Kid's learn more by their parent's behavior. No matter how many times you say don't do that, if you do it, your child would most likely do it again. There is a reason for the saying "do what I say not what I do."

Everyone knows that the first five years are the most important in child development. Are we going to set rules and parameters on parent's behavior and teaching? If we want kid's to not believe in god until they are older and understand it more, we just need to tell parent's that they can't practice any religion while the child is young especially those first five years. I call those years the trial and error years, the formative years. What they see their parents do, they try it themselves. There is a reason why they sell the electrical outlet covers, they see mommy and daddy plug in electrical appliances all the time so they do it too. My daughter didn't know anything about religion at 1 and 1/2 years old, but knew that the rosary beads meant talking to someone who was not there. I saw her a number of time taking my beads, bowing her head, and babbling. I didn't tell her to do that, but she seen me do it that is why she does it. She is trying it out. If you want young kids to be more free in their sexuality, then you must demand their parents to be very free in expressing their sexuality with one another in front of their child. Let the child witness you having sex rather than shutting the door, hiding underneath the covers during those first five years.

Is it fair that we tell parents that we demand them to behave and parent a certain way so the child could freely express their sexuality without shame and regrets when they are young. I think that isn't fair either. If the parent express emotions against sexual desires between themselves; even though if it was consensual sex, the child is going to feel shame once the child comes home. It is like a wife cheating on her husband. It is all good during the act, but once she confront the people she loves the feeling of guilt comes.

You are deceiving yourselves if you could do it without the parent. A child first love would always be his parents, the people who raise them. If they are not okay with it, you are risking this child to be hurt. Kids haven't built their walls up to limit the emotional pain like adults so it hits them harder. I feel if I went through what I went through as a teenager instead, it wouldn't be so devastating. It took me until high school to finally take a step forward from what had happen.