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Re: How do you get over that fear?
Posted by qtns2di4 on 2014-September-27 22:49:15 EDT, Saturday
In reply to How do you get over that fear? posted by rainbowloom on 2014-September-27 09:57:47 EDT, Saturday
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Just go ahead.
You are more creepy if you look like you want to say something and don't say it than if you say it.
Ask her parents if they would allow you to take her out just the two of you. That is easy. She enjoys your company and you enjoy hers. That would allow her the opportunity to go somewhere she wants (or go somewhere as a surprize) without adding hassle to the parents.
I am by the point where random parents ask me to take their children out. But this is how it started. By offering to take her somewhere.
If in our work or hobbies you have a particular specialized thing she would enjoy, that is also an excellent visit for a first outing. For example, Trucker would take her to see a loading and unloading area to see how trucks arrive, unload, load, and go. While mundane to the adults, children who have never watched it will think it's awesome.
And it is practice for when you have your own children. If you want to experience a sample of both the enjoyment and the responsibility of taking your children out, this is a way to do it. It has only convinced me all the more that I want to repopulate Earth.
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Responses
- Re: How do you get over that fear? - rainbowloom on 2014-September-28 06:09:12 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 7)
- Re: How do you get over that fear? - qtns2di4 on 2014-September-28 08:53:57 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 6)
- Re: How do you get over that fear? - sadlife on 2014-September-28 09:22:08 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 5)
- No unintended consequences - qtns2di4 on 2014-September-28 20:33:32 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 4)
- Re: No unintended consequences - madscience on 2014-September-29 07:07:05 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 3)
- Re: No unintended consequences - qtns2di4 on 2014-September-29 23:49:30 EDT, Monday - (1 / 0 / 1)
- I can see more clearly now. - sadlife on 2014-September-30 12:51:26 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: No unintended consequences - sadlife on 2014-September-29 22:58:54 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: No unintended consequences - qtns2di4 on 2014-September-29 23:49:30 EDT, Monday - (1 / 0 / 1)
- Re: No unintended consequences - madscience on 2014-September-29 07:07:05 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 3)
- No unintended consequences - qtns2di4 on 2014-September-28 20:33:32 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 4)
- Re: How do you get over that fear? - sadlife on 2014-September-28 09:22:08 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 5)
- Re: How do you get over that fear? - qtns2di4 on 2014-September-28 08:53:57 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 6)