If I'm defending marriage, I'm defending marriage. If I'm defending contact, I'm defending contact. Whoever spoke about abuse? The one who spoke abuse is the one thinking about abuse. Not me.

Then, I suggest you call it "marriage" and "contact," but sometimes we have to make what we really mean clear pre-emptively, since we know what the antis will try to say.

It looks like trying to ban all marriage just because, um, Henry VIII killed his wives.

We don't measure humankind by its worst. Why should we, just because it involves Pedos?

But you know that is how the antis operate. This includes the Virpeds. They assume the worst in humanity in general, and in us in particular, to justify banning every decision they dislike.