Online administrators don't rule "ethics".

Nor should they. My claim is that ethics applies to ALL. As we are oppressed, we are not served by proclaiming ourselves special snowflakes, above ethics, and behaving like assholes, online or off, regardless of the shit we claim to have been through.

The "community" could learn a lot.

The community have already been through many rounds of the Prisoners' Dilemma with others, who also thought themselves above ethics.
Is this an optimal way for the community to function?