You've waved your arms and spoken of outrageous behavior in a case that is different in one vital respect, and spoken of other outrages, and speculated on fears of what might have happened -- but not given any examples.

I gave a very strong example. To be frank, Ethan, is it you who typically relies on assumptions, not me. The Fayla incident is very typical of the situation that all younger people find themselves in, particularly mesophiles, as Explorer pointed out in detail. There are not hundreds of examples because we have not yet reached a point in time when hundreds of girls dare to do so without fear of severe censure. That is not a case of simply having no desire to have such relationships, or no desire for their rights in general. Most of them currently feel it's best to just sneak around and do their thing behind the scenes rather than bring attention to themselves in the manner Fayla did, as was displayed by a number of mesophiles who communicated here in the past. They do the cost-benefit sort of analysis you often speak of, albeit in a different sense, and realize it's best in their eyes to just sneak around and do their thing rather than shout about it publicly and risk the ax coming down on them, much as the great majority of gays did prior to the 1980s. As Explorer noted, few girls nowadays feel they are in any position to take on the system directly like that, as they know what they will be up against if they do. Let's see what happens in the coming years, though?